Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Stop it...

I hate this question directed towards my 6 year old and 2 year old. Do you have a Boyfriend/girlfriend in your class?

REALLY, REALLY..  At the time this question was asked to C he was 5.
Let him be a kid without the worry of. Oh does she like me, I hope she likes me. Or, give him the notion that if a girl doesn't like him back then it is wrong/something is wrong with him.

Do you not have another question to ask to a 6 or 2 year old? I don't know like Do you like candy? How do you like school? Do You like Mickey Mouse?  You get my drift....

 I know sometimes when people ask it is innocent but please LET them be a kid.
It is only a matter of time before they do feel that pressure of does this boy/girl like me.
I don't want to rush the awkwardness that comes with it.

let them play with cars/ babies for as long as they want. Try and not push the older toys and cartoons for as long as you can.

Stop rushing to have your kids grow up because once they are you want them small again.

Problem is once they do end up having a BF /GF. those people who ask the question at 5 or 2 will be the first ones to say well aren't they a little young to have a BF/GF?

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